I dug this US belt plate in the front yard of a house built in 1867 (plus all other items pictured). The owner and I have common interest in arrowhead hunting and shared our collections last week. We've been talking a lot and I really like him. I even gave him a dandy cloak button with intricate designs I found there, which I thought was pretty generous of me See, he's lived in the house since he was a boy and goes back in generations to when it was built, so I thought perhaps that button belonged to one of his ancestors.
But NOW that I found the belt plate I found myself feeling guilty that I haven't shared the find with him, what if he wants it/demands it?? I am feeling selfish and want to keep it! I wouldn't feel so guilty, but I plan to go back there because I'm determined to go back and find his wife's platinum wedding band she lost in the yard 7 yrs ago... This house was along a route that soldiers travelled back in the day, so it may not be his ancestor's (but what if his great grandpa was a Union soldier...) I'm a pretty honest person, but I've heard many MDers say don't tell owners 'everything'. Anyone else been in this situation?